Poetry Review: “You Heard the Man You Love” by M. Atwood

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Poetry Review:

“You Heard the Man You Love” by M. Atwood

04.24.2013

By Zara D. Garcia-Alvarez / @ZaraAlexis

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Category:  Poetry

Author: Margaret Atwood

Format: Hardcover, 122 pages

Publisher: McClelland & Stewart

ISBN: 978-0-7710-0880-1

Pub Date: September 11, 2011

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YOU HEARD THE MAN YOU LOVE

You heard the man you love

talking to himself in the next room.

He didn’t know you were listening.

You put your ear against the wall

but you couldn’t catch the words,

only a kind of rumbling.

Was he angry? Was he swearing?

Or was it some kind of commentary

like a long obscure footnote on a page of poetry?

Or was he trying to find something he’d lost,

such as the car keys?

Then suddenly he began to sing.

You were startled

because this was a new thing,

but you didn’t open the door, you didn’t go in,

and he kept on singing, in his deep voice, off-key,

a purple-green monotone, dense and heathery.

He wasn’t singing for you, or about you.

He had some other source of joy,

nothing to do with you at all –

he was an unknown man, singing in his own room, alone.

Why did you feel so hurt then, and so curious,

and also happy,

and also set free?

From The Door: Poems by Margaret Atwood, published by McClelland & Stewart, 2007, p. 113.

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For me, poetry is a deep image that resonates an equally deep truth. It’s a lyrical or beautiful expression in any stylistic form that attempts to capture what is withheld or unknown—and then becomes known in a startling moment. It’s a dialogue of absence and otherness, a sort of secret map that is intrinsically powerful in its ability to connect us through language, image, and understanding. For me, poetry is a subtle epiphany that resonates in a real and true way to its reader.

 

The particular poem, “You Heard the Man You Love” by Margaret Atwood, simply and accurately captured the mysterious essence of simultaneous knowing and unknowing, separation and connectedness. It perfectly depicted my own longing, understanding, and acceptance of knowing and not knowing what is withheld from me in the man who I love, my husband of 11 years. And how the beauty of that mystery and discovery as well as the acceptance of it, can be inclusive of hurt, curiosity, joy, and emancipation.

 

The poem is simple in its language and imagery, and yet profound at the same time. Much like the uniqueness, beauty, and gift found in the unknown and separation and connectedness in relationships, especially of those whom we love.

 

Zara’s Rating
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The views and opinions expressed in this article are solely those of the author, Zara D. Garcia-Alvarez, for the purpose of review and criticism of literary works with all rights reserved. The use of any part of this publication reproduced, transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise, or stored in a retrieval system, without the prior written consent of the author is an infringement of copyright law.

 

The poem “You Heard the Man You Love” is reprinted on The Bibliotaphe’s Closet and because of its criticism and review purposes, is considered fair dealing in Canada under the Copyright Act.

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What is poetry to you?

What is your favourite poem?

Who is your favourite poet?

What is your favourite poem by Margaret Atwood?

 

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Book Review: Buddy: How a Rooster Made Me a Family Man by Brian McGrory

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Book Review:

Buddy: How a Rooster Made Me a Family Man by Brian McGrory

03.12.2013

By Zara D. Garcia-Alvarez / @ZaraAlexis

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Category: Memoir

Author: Brian McGrory

Format: Hardcover, 332 pages

Publisher: Crown Publishing

ISBN: 978-0-307-95306-3

Pub Date: November 13, 2012

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Summary from publisher:

Brian McGrory’s life changed drastically after the death of his beloved dog, Harry: he fell in love with Pam, Harry’s veterinarian. Though Brian’s only responsibility used to be his adored Harry, Pam came with accessories that could not have been more exotic to the city-loving bachelor: a home in suburbia, two young daughters, two dogs, two cats, two rabbits, and a portly, snow-white, red-crowned-and-wattled step-rooster named Buddy. While Buddy loves the women of the house, he takes Brian’s presence as an affront, doing everything he can to drive out his rival. Initially resistant to elements of his new life and to the loud, aggressive rooster (who stares menacingly, pecks threateningly, and is constantly poised to attack), Brian eventually sees that Buddy shares the kind of extraordinary relationship with Pam and her two girls that he wants for himself. The rooster is what Brian needs to be – strong and content, devoted to what he has rather than what might be missing. As he learns how to live by living with animals, Buddy, Brian’s nemesis, becomes Buddy, Brian’s inspiration, in this inherently human story of love, acceptance, and change.

In the tradition of bestsellers like Marley and Me, Dewey, and The Tender Bar comes a heartwarming and wise tale of finding love in life’s second chapter – and how it means all the more when you have to fight for it.

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Book review by Zara from The Bibliotaphe Closet:

Buddy: How a Rooster Made Me a Family Man by Brian McGrory is a brilliant memoir about the reluctant transition a man must make from content autonomy of singlehood to the selflessness that’s required in a longterm relationship, the unexpected and ever-changing moods of children — and in this case, a house full of pets.

Brian McGrory’s experience as a writer and editor for the Boston Globe since the eighties has clearly given him an advantage in writing novels, which in Buddy, obviously showcases his natural ease in writing an effortless and an easily readable and enjoyable prose.

The writing is indicative of McGrory himself: intelligent, witty, thoughtful, and humble enough to be accommodating to those he cares about.

The history of his life-changing relationship with his beloved golden retriever, Harry, is especially genuine and heartfelt that readers, even professed non-dog lovers, will naturally feel a connection to this intelligent, loyal, and gregarious dog, and a deep appreciation for their exceptional relationship with one other.

In comparison, the reader may indeed get frustrated with Harry’s polar opposite, Buddy, the incessantly pecking and crowing, much beloved and spoiled, self-indulged, and self-important, territorial rooster of the family.

It seemed for much of the book that poor McGrory was not only outnumbered by females, animals, and decisions that often put him last; readers may have felt an undeniable empathy—even pity—for the man who reluctantly accommodated great change in his life because of his love and commitment to one woman in his conceding role as second husband, stepfather to two stepdaughters, and bewildered co-owner to 12 feisty animals: Baker, Walter, Charlie, Tigger, Lily, Dolly, Mokey, Lala, Smurf, Chaz, Buddy, and the nameless frog — in one boisterous household.

I certainly did.

The injustice of McGrory’s desires almost always put last in accommodation to please Pam, his wife, and her two daughters in their desire to appease, nurture, and indulge their beloved and domesticated rooster, Buddy, baffled and infuriated me.

While I couldn’t understand how one’s love for an animal could impede on the desires and needs of a family member like McGrory, the length in which the family accommodated this regal, strutting, pecking, and attacking, feathered bird was over and beyond any pet owner’s natural obligation.

But this family isn’t ordinary. Nor is their lifestyle, which accepted and fell in love with an animal that originally began as a school project.

The bird not only watched television with the children, but day trips were postponed to accommodate the rooster’s emotional needs. McGrory was often cawed and pecked at, even aggressively attacked, and yet the bird was “babied” by the women in the household, much to McGrowy’s silent frustration.

And when the family moved into a new home, a matching, mini-house was built for Buddy as well—with drywall siding, cedar shingles, and a transom window to incite a crude truth from one of the builders who wished, “My next life, I want to be your rooster. This is the nicest chicken house in town,” in which McGrory rightly retorts in his narrative,

“In town? There’s not another rooster in any of these United States that resides in the kind of splendor that Buddy would come to have in my side yard, including a transom window to make it all aesthetically pleasing and high ceilings to create a sense of space. You have got to be kidding me.” – pp.212-213.

But, McGrory wasn’t kidding. This was some high-end, special rooster. So special, in fact, that an entire book in the form of a memoir is written in his honour!

Fun aside, the turmoil in the book is also its comedic release and its source of life lessons as McGrory intelligently and sentimentally creates metaphors in which these lessons are taught and learned.

The memoir itself is a wonderful testimony to the suburban struggle and dream, the tenacity of love and patience, the territorial dance between two males when marking the ground in uncertainty to find place and belonging—and the adventures worth taking when you invest yourself in more than just family, but also the animal kingdom.

(Or in this rare case, a family that includes the animal kingdom!)

There’s a lot to roar about in this book, both in anger and frustration, as well as in fear and anxiety. But, there’s a lot of roaring laughter, too. As well as an unexpected tenderness that can only be revealed by the love induced by the unlikeliest creatures.

Buddy, in nature was a spirited rival, a testy and territorial bird, but a beloved creature whose ability to crow loud and “ruffle the feathers” in any situation made him a presence in the hearts and minds (especially McGrory’s – out of fear and anxiety, mostly)—of the family who was and is his eternal flock.

Readers will want to applaud McGrory’s real-life efforts as well as his writing—and by the end of the novel will do the next best thing: cluck!

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Characters:  4 stars

Pacing: 5 stars

Cover Design: 3.5 stars

Plot: 4 stars

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Zara’s Rating

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A special thanks to Crown Publishing for providing me with a copy of this book in exchange for an honest, unpaid review.

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About the author:

brian mcgrory

Brian McGrory is a longtime newspaper reporter, editor, and columnist. Born and raised in and around Boston, he went to college at Bates College in Maine. He worked for the Patriot Ledger in Quincy, the New Haven Register in Connecticut, and has written for and edited the Boston Globe since 1989. He has a twice weekly column that appears on the front of the metro section, for which he has won the Scripps Howard journalism award, and is the author of four novels. He lives in Massachusetts with his entire family.

(From Goodreads.com)

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Links:

Brian McGrory on Twitter

Buddy from Chapters-Indigo

Buddy from Amazon.ca

Buddy from Amazon.com

Buddy from The Book Depository

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Would you ever consider owing a rooster as pet?

Would you ever consider owning an exotic animal as a pet?

What is your favourite animal?

Do you own any pets? If so, what, who, and how many?

How do you think pets frustrate or enrich our lives?

Have you read “Buddy: How a Rooster Made Me a Family Man” yet?

Was my book review helpful to you?

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Book Review: The Dinner by Herman Koch

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Book Review:

The Dinner by Herman Koch

03.01.2013

By Zara D. Garcia-Alvarez / @ZaraAlexis

the dinner

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Category: Fiction

Author: Herman Koch

Format: Hardcover, 298 pages

Publisher: Hogarth

ISBN: 978-0-7704-3785-5

Pub Date: February 12, 2013

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Summary from publisher:

It’s a summer’s evening in Amsterdam, and two couples meet at a fashionable restaurant for dinner. Between mouthfuls of food and over the polite scrapings of cutlery, the conversation remains a gentle hum of polite discourse — the banality of work, the triviality of the holidays. But behind the empty words, terrible things need to be said, and with every forced smile and every new course, the knives are being sharpened.

Each couple has a fifteen-year-old son. The two boys are united by their accountability for a single horrific act; an act that has triggered a police investigation and shattered the comfortable, insulated worlds of their families. As the dinner reaches its culinary climax, the conversation finally touches on their children. As civility and friendship disintegrate, each couple shows just how far they are prepared to go to protect those they love.

Tautly written, incredibly gripping, and told by an unforgettable narrator, The Dinner promises to be the topic of countless dinner party debates. Skewering everything from parenting values to pretentious menus to political convictions, this novel reveals the dark side of genteel society and asks what each of us would do in the face of unimaginable tragedy.

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Book review by Zara from The Bibliotaphe Closet:

The Dinner by Herman Koch begins deceptively reasonable in its act of “normalcy” by its introduction of one of the book’s characters, Serge Lohman, a cabinet minister running in an election, his wife Babette, and its talk of what many families and couples enjoy — a night out to dinner.

The first-person narrative shared by the main character of the book, Paul, is easily readable, intelligent, and brutally honest that readers can enjoy being pulled into the fabric of the story with ease and interest.

But as the story continues, the “horrific act” committed by both of the couples’ sons is revealed, and not only triggers a city-wide police investigation, but leaves the readers with the shocking anger of its injustice.

While not discounting the severity of the crime itself because juvenile delinquency exists in the everyday of community, the book does delve deeper in revealing an even more shocking immorality — the response and reaction of the boys’ parents.

And from there the book spirals into a gripping narrative of subversive violence.

While Serge Lohman is accused of a pompous, egocentric attitude; his wife, Babette, portrayed as a weeping socialite; Claire, an intelligent and doting mother; and Paul, a complacent father with deep-rooted insecurity issues — readers will be shocked to learn the true culprits and puppeteers of violence and immorality in the book.

I, myself, had to put the book down several times to take in a breath from my anger and disbelief. And yet, I was compelled to return to it in order to complete the book and discover its outcome.

The tension in the book coupled with its shock value as well as the fact that it’s so well-written and easily readable makes this novel a tough story to put down.

It will certainly make readers question just how far one would and should go in protecting those they love—and how far back the source goes in perpetuating acts of violence, as well as who is truly to blame.

The novel is an enjoyable read as it is a frightening, disturbing one; one that readers will abhor in its immoral compass and delight in, in its provocative and succinctly dark grip.

If you haven’t yet had the pleasure (and the disgust) of reading the novel, The Dinner, by Herman Koch, it’s one you’ll want to add to—and devour from—your reading menu.

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Characters:  4 stars

Pacing: 4 stars

Cover Design: 4 stars

Plot: 4 stars

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Zara’s Rating

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A special thanks to Hogarth for providing me with a copy of this book in exchange for an honest, unpaid review.

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About the author:

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Herman Koch is the author of seven novels and three collections of short stories. The Dinner, his sixth novel, has been published in 25 countries, translated in 21 languages including English, and has sold over one million copies throughout Europe. It is also the winner of the Publieksprijs Prize in 2009.  Koch is a Dutch writer and comedy actor who currently lives in Amsterdam.

(From back jacket and Wikipedia.)

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Links:

Herman Koch Official Website

Herman Koch Facebook Page

The Dinner from Chapters-Indigo

The Dinner from Amazon.ca

The Dinner from Amazon.com

The Dinner from The Book Depository

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 When and how do you think one’s moral compass can become so de-sensitized that it actually disappears?

In what ways can we ensure that violence and the acceptance of violence is not tolerated in the home and/or the community?

When is it “right” to take the law into your own hands?

Have you read the book, The Dinner, by Herman Koch yet? If so, what did you think of it? Which character do you think was the worst, morally speaking?

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Book Review: The Lost Soul by Gabriella Pierce

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Book Review: The Lost Soul by Gabriella Pierce

02.08.2013

By Zara D. Garcia-Alvarez / @ZaraAlexis

lost soul

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Category: Young Adult Fiction, Paranormal Fiction

Author: Gabriella Pierce

Format: Trade Paperback, 300 pages

Publisher: Canvas (Imprint of Constable & Robinson)

ISBN: 978-1-78033-947-4

Pub Date: January 17, 2013

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Summary from Publisher

Jane Boyle has long since known that her mother-in-law is a witch, but she’d never imagined Lynne Doran was actually the embodiment of a powerful, ancient, body-snatching evil! Now that Jane and her friends have uncovered Lynne and 666 Park Avenue’s dark truth, they must race against the clock to find a way to destroy the ancient witch before she finds her next unwilling host. And as Jane attempts to tap into power stronger than her enemy’s, her estranged husband Malcom arrives in time to join the fight…but can she grow to trust him before it’s too late?

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Book Review by Zara from The Bibliotaphe Closet

The Lost Soul by Gabriella Pierce is the last book of the 666 Park Avenue series, which features the dilemma of trying to defeat an ancient evil.

The characters come together in this last installment to battle a witch of consuming power and vicious nature.

Jane Boyle is joined by her old friends, Dee, Harris, and his sister Maeve; old rivals, Andre and his protective sister Katrin; and her old love, Malcolm; as well as new figures with magical heritage, the Montagues: Emer, Charlotte, Leah, and the adept Penelope Lotuma.

Together they cast a new coven of magical families that must unite in order to challenge the death and destruction planned to obliterate what is left of the witch ancestry.

The introduction of new characters add more entertainment value to the story, giving it a little more dimension, while the depth of Harris’ character is revealed through his hardened grief.

And the pacing of the novel is indicative of the 666 Park Avenue series: quick and suspenseful filled with planning, plotting, and lurking danger, though in this book, the tension wasn’t as high as its previous counterparts.

The plot, too, wasn’t as intricate as its previous novels, perhaps because resolution is its primary goal as the last book in the series. That said, the story still included enough witchcraft to tantalize paranormal fans without the gruesome details of darker novels. “At heart,” this novel is a love story and one which professes the classic battle between good and evil.

The creativity behind the witch sub-culture genre is what I enjoyed most about the book. Whether or not “magical” details are grounded in truth or well-done research doesn’t hinder the story from keeping its readers interested, especially those who enjoy the paranormal.

The dialogue and narrative stay true to its young adult genre and rekindles romance and tenderness to evoke hope amidst loss.

While it’s a “victorious” little novel, the scars left behind after a battle especially a spiritual one is certain to leave a mark.

And though the book is meant to be the last book in the 666 Park Avenue series, it is written in such a way that another book could very easily follow it if the author and publisher should decide to do so. If so, loyal readers who have followed the books in the series, 666 Park Avenue and The Dark Glamour, would welcome more epic battles and the continuation of magical bloodlines. I know I would.

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Characters: 3 stars

Pacing: 4 stars

Cover design: 3 stars

Plot: 3 stars

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Zara’s Rating

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A special thanks to Canvas, an imprint of Constable & Robsinson, for providing me with a copy of the book in exchange for an unpaid, honest review.

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About the author

Gabriella Pierce is an American living in Paris with her two dogs.

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Links

666 Park Avenue Official Website

The Lost Soul from Chapters-Indigo

The Lost Soul from Amazon.com

The Lost Soul from Amazon.ca

The Lost Soul from The Book Depository

My book review of 666 Park Avenue (Book 1)

My book review of The Dark Glamour (Book 2)

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What do you find most fascinating about the witch sub-culture and its magic found in fiction?

Have you read the 666 Park Avenue or The Dark Glamour books? If so, what ddo you think of its main character, Jane Boyle?

If you were a witch, what kind of powers would you most like to harbour?

What do you think might be the dangers in reading false facts about witchcraft in fiction, if any?

What do you think are the potential dangers of practicing witchcraft as a spiritual practice and faith, if any?

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Book Review: Silent House by Orhan Pamuk

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Book Review:

Silent House by Orhan Pamuk

02.01.2013

By Zara D. Garcia-Alvarez / @ZaraAlexis

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Category: Literary Fiction

Author: Orhan Pamuk

Format: Hardcover, 344 pages

Publisher: Knopf Canada

ISBN: 978-0-307-40265-3

Pub Date: October 9, 2012

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Summary from publisher:

In an old mansion in Cennethisar (formerly a fishing village, now a posh resort near Istanbul) the old widow Fatma awaits the annual summer visit of her grandchildren: Faruk, a dissipated failed historian; his sensitive leftist sister, Nilgun; and the younger grandson, Metin, a high school student drawn to the fast life of the nouveaux riches, who dreams of going to America. The widow has lived in the village for decades, ever since her husband, an idealistic young doctor, first arrived to serve the poor fishermen. Now mostly bedridden, she is attended by her faithful servant Recep, a dwarf–and the doctor’s illegitimate son. Mistress and servant share memories, and grievances, of those early years. But it is Recep’s cousin Hassan, a high school dropout, and fervent right-wing nationalist, who will draw the visiting family into the growing political cataclysm, in this spell-binding novel depicting Turkey’s tumultuous century-long struggle for modernity.

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Book Review by Zara from The Bibliotaphe Closet:

Silent House, by Nobel Prize in Literature winner, Orhan Pamuk, is a dramatic and detailed story of a Turkish family bound by a dark history beginning in Cennethisar, a former village near Istanbul.

The novel is driven by its characters more so than its plot through a series of stream-of-conscious, inner forms of dialogue that recall sporadic memories and reveal the characters’ deeply rooted biases and fears.

There is Recep Efendi, a 55-year-old dwarf who resides in the Darvinğlu mansion as a servant and loyal caregiver to Fatma Karatash-Darvinğlu, a 90-year-old, bedridden grandmother whom he refers to as Madam.

And Fatma Darvinğlu , herself, a devout, religious, upper class woman whose age and obstinate beliefs chiselled her into a cold, proud, and bitter woman who punishes those around her due to her grief and disappointment in love, marriage, righteousness, and the inauthenticity of the modern world, which she misunderstands, fears, and loathes.

The two of them together, await the arrival of her now grown grandchildren for their annual summer visit at Shore Avenue, No. 12, Cennethisar: Faruk, recently divorced and an associate professor and avid historian whose love for the Gezbe archives and its contained past inspires him to want to write a story of no obvious connections or interpretations; Nilgun, a beautiful woman whose warm affection, intelligence and leftist beliefs bring her unwanted attention and danger; and Metin, who considers himself the most practical of his siblings and an intelligent tutor of mathematics whose talent to multiply any pair of two-digit numbers in his head ostracize him from his pretentious group of friends.

As the story slowly unravels, the reader learns about the grievances caused by Fatma’s ambitious and high-strung husband whose sole obsession to write and publish a scientific encyclopedia drives his marriage and finances to the ground.

This hunger for knowledge is eventually passed down to their son, Doğan, who aspired to be more like his father, became a direct administrator in the east, and signed up for politics. Much to Fatma’s opinion and dismay, like his father, he intrinsically felt responsible “for all the crimes and sins and injustice in [the] world,” at which point she wished he didn’t feel that way so that he would listen to her instead and not suffer, nor be agitated.

A parallel story also focuses on Recep’s nephew, his brother, Ismail’s troubled son, Hasan, whose deep insecurities cause him to not only fail English and Mathematics in school, which influences him to drop-out and remain unemployed, but to also get involved in toxic relationships that lead him to a path of inevitable destruction. Instead of listening to his worried parents and applying himself in his studies at school, he surrounds himself with an extremist, nationalist group whose bullying antics encourage him to join them in terrorizing their community.

The tone of the book is much like the archival collection, which Faruk is fascinated with and describes readily in the novel. It seems that the author, Pamuk, was intentional in creating this metaphor and correlation between archival history and reading and writing, and even more specifically, the reading and writing of Silent House itself as a story:

Just as, after a long sea journey, an all-oppressing fog suddenly lifts to reveal with astonishing clarity every tree, stone, and bird on a stretch of shore, so, too, as I read on, from individual pages, the millions of lives and stories jumbled together suddenly took discrete form in my mind. – p. 83

and

…history’s nothing, but a story… – p.170

and

I intended the book to be read: as a completely aimless stroll… – p.166.

There is even a line in the book in which Orhan, himself, is referred to:

Orhan’s supposedly writing a novel. – p. 288

Silent House is indeed written in such a way that the details about characters are depicted as subtle hints that are sporadically spread out throughout the text in unexpected ways. The reader must actively read the novel and pay close attention to such details in order to set a framework of the story’s personal history. And in this sense, Pamuk writes the novel in the way in which his character, Faruk, would have desired to write his own novel: one that would be “a continuous feat of ‘representation,’” – p.165,  laid out with little or no connections.

The connections, however, exist within the story, but the reader must actively search them out to understand the complexity of the characters themselves and the history of Istanbul at the time when an impending military coup took over the area in 1980. The political turbulence of the time is also a theme in the novel and one that truly afflicted Seİahattin Darvinoğlu’s sensibility.

The silence in the book, as expressed in its title, I think, is one that refers to the repression each character suffers from their own personal struggles against the injustices of their circumstances against the grandeur of their desires.

The silence can also speak of a common theme throughout the book: the hidden loneliness that each character harbours about their displacement in the world they live in and the gap felt in their yearning for change whether it be found through power, relationship, history, or politics.

The abrupt silence in which the book also refers to is one that occurs at the very end of the book, which in its muted volume, ironically resounds a loud message of the shift that occurs in the characters’ lives.

For Recep, his loneliness extends to his illiteracy, his discomfort in talking, and his desperate wish to be able to converse with anyone—let alone his natural and desperate need for friendship.

His only consolation, or rather his only form of coping through his loneliness, is found in his constant effort to please everyone by taking care of their needs through acts of servitude, rather than ever considering himself. And even though he thinks of himself naive and unworthy, Recep has a depth that is not only compassionate, humble, and generous, but filled with an honest awareness of the “exchange of empty words,” and the inauthenticity and insignificance of the things that go on around him:

…everything’s beyond the power of our speech and our words. – p.123

…words are useless… – p.173

But what can you see in thoughts? Pain, grief, hope, curiosity, longing… – p.176

And while he receives wise advice from his father,

Recep: be open-minded and free, and only trust your own intelligence, do you understand? – p.310,

Recep, himself, devalues his own intelligence and works hard to live not only within the status-quo, but to go as far as to allow others to dictate his limitations, lifestyle, and self-worth.

Seİahattin Darvinoğlu’s loneliness stems from his unique, progressive views of science and atheism he holds and finds himself advocating amidst a people who adamantly adhere to strict, conservative, religious beliefs, and what Seİahattin considers to be “superstitious stories and myths.”

His loneliness is further solidified by his wife, Fatma’s stubborn wilfulness to defy him with disbelief, hardness, and silence.

His overwhelming desire and compulsion to not only publish a scientific encyclopedia, but also share his knowledge with others in order to change the thought process of the east on a global scale isolates him in a way that his community was unwilling to accept his dogmas or his doctoral help, which eventually led him to the bottle because he was so grieved by society’s “foolishness” and “simpleton ideas.”

To him, “[t]he source of all knowledge is curiosity,” which he spoke of to Recep, but which in the end consumed him and left him to be a scattered, over-ambitious, indecisive, and emotional character.

Fatma, too, in her apathy and bitterness was essentially hardened by a life of personal disappointment, ignorance, and severe conservatism, and religious doctrine. While she loves the family to which she was born and misses her son, Doğan, her loathing of what she considered to be her grandchildren’s “shamelessness,” her husband’s “devilry,” his “bastard” children, the loss of her inherited dowry, which she treasured far more than any of her relationships, as well as her fear, disgust, and overall apathy towards the modernity of society as opposed to what she remembers of her past—suffers from a deep indignation and isolation that closes her off to other people, those that still make an effort to be a part of her life. Her loneliness is one that is not only deep-rooted, but one that she fears, yet clings to, and even justifies by comparing herself to the inanimate objects in her room:

The water, the pitcher, the keys, the handkerchief, the peach, the cologne, the peach…They all sit there, just like me, all around me in the quiet emptiness, they creak they rattle, in the silence of the night, they seem to be purifying themselves of sin, of guilt. It’s then, at night, that time is truly time, and all the objects come closer to me, just as I come closer to myself. – p.228

The remaining secondary characters in the novel: Faruk, Metin, Nilgun, and Hasan, do all share their own forms of loneliness, insecurities, and silence through repression of their true feelings.

The Silent House by Orhan Pamuk is a novel of considerable emotional struggle and hardship, an intricate story of character development, historical challenges, and mature craftmanship—well-deserving of its nomination for the Man Asian Literary Prize for 2012.

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Characters:  3.5 stars

Pacing: 2.5 stars

Cover Design: 2.5 stars

Plot: 3 stars

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A special thanks to A. Knopf Canada for providing me with a copy of this book in exchange for an unpaid, honest review.

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About the author:

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Orhan Pamuk is a Turkish novelist, screenwriter, academic and recipient of the 2006 Nobel Prize in Literature. One of Turkey’s most prominent novelists, his work has sold over eleven million books in sixty languages, making him the country’s best-selling writer.

Born in Istanbul, Pamuk is Robert Yik-Fong Tam Professor in the Humanities at Columbia University, where he teaches comparative literature and writing. His novels include The White CastleThe Black BookThe New LifeMy Name Is Red and Snow.

As well as the Nobel Prize in Literature (the first Nobel Prize to be awarded to a Turkish citizen), Pamuk is the recipient of numerous other literary awards. My Name Is Red won the 2002 Prix du Meilleur Livre Étranger, 2002 Premio Grinzane Cavour and 2003 International IMPAC Dublin Literary Award.

(From Wikipedia)

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Have you read any of Orhan Pamuk’s novels? Which ones? Which one is your favourite?

Have you read any fiction novels that take place in Istanbul, Turkey?

What do you find most compelling about character-driven novels?

Which book do you think will win the Man Asian Literary Award for 2013?

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Book Review: Born Weird by Andrew Kaufman

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Book Review:

Born Weird by Andrew Kaufman

01.10.2013

By Zara D. Garcia-Alvarez / @ZaraAlexis

born weird

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Category:  Fiction

Author: Andrew Kaufman

Format: Trade Paperback, 280 pages

Publisher: Random House Canada

ISBN: 978-0-307-35764-9

Pub Date: December 26, 2012

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Born Weird by Andrew Kaufman is a light-hearted fictional tale about a creative and quirky family named The Weirds after a misspelling of the original name of their ancestor, Sterling D. Wyird, in the process of emigrating from England to Canada.

It’s a story of the grown children’s quest to gather themselves together to meet their grandmother who they all cynically refer to as the Shark, before the deadline of her own prophetic death.

Why must they do this? Because much to what they’ve guessed about themselves, their grandmother reaffirmed their beliefs about being “cursed” with special gifts they each received from her and promises to lift each curse upon her death.

Though the premise of the story sounds absurd, its telling is easily readable and entertaining enough for the reader to be drawn into its fantastical plausibility and magical realism.

The Weird Family consists of intelligent, witty, and creative, imaginative siblings, though different in personality, are all bound by the sentimental act of building a model city together as children from cardboard boxes and their vivid imagination—and also by the trauma of an absent father who is tragically killed in a car accident.

The five siblings—Richard, is given the ability to keep himself safe; Lucy, is never lost; Abba, never loses hope; Angie, is given the power to forgive anyone, anytime; and Kent, has powerful physical strength in order to defend himself.

And while these “gifts” appear as blessings, the bearers are hindered and bound by the absolutism of them, and the gifts essentially become a curse, which the author and the book’s characters themselves call “blursings.”

It’s in their quest to search out and gather each sibling together to make the deadline of visiting their dying grandmother that they’re able to cope and come to terms with not only the confusion and frustration of their individual gifts, but to also face the mental deterioration of their mother who lives in a janitorial closet in a nursing home, as well as the mysterious nature of their father’s missing body.

The pacing of the story moves well while the humour of the dialogue and the quirky characters make this book a fun, light-hearted read even though the underlying story itself is thoughtful and dramatic. Andrew Kaufman is a talented writer who can transform the “weird” elements of life, reflect them creatively and realistically through his characters and plot, put it all together, and make it as an entertaining read as it is tender and heartfelt.

This is a creative, imaginative, and humorous little book—packed with the hope of transformation, redemption, and acceptance—even if it means a little more “magic” than most!

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Zara’s Rating

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A special thanks to Random House of Canada for providing me with a copy of this book in exchange for an unpaid and honest review.

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If you could choose which “gift” to be “cursed” with, what would you choose and why?

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Book Review: Monsieur by Emma Becker

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Book Review:

Monsieur by Emma Becker

12.22.2012

By Zara D. Garcia-Alvarez / @ZaraAlexis

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Category: Adult Erotica, Drama

Author: Emma Becker

Format: Trade Paperback, 376 pages

Publisher: Constable & Robinson

ISBN: 978-1-78033-476-9

Pub Date: October 31, 2012

Intended for 18+, mature readers only.

Explicit sex and sexual language, erotica.

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Monsieur by Emma Becker will strangle you into its story of erotic passion that started as a young woman’s naive and rebellious curiosity that slowly and thickly becomes a lethal, emotional, and lustful obsession.

It’s a story of 20-something-year-old Ellie, a “nymphet,” of who she describes in the fictional work, “Lolita” by Nabakov—the title, too, is the opening sentence of the first chapter of the book, which should elicit or at least allude to the passion and erotica to come in the novel (no pun intended—well… maybe a little)—and her all-consuming affair with her married lover, a man twenty-five years her senior who she affectionately refers to as, Monsieur.

And while the name in itself, “Monsieur,” denotes a sense of maturity, propriety, or even a formal politeness or regality; the character referred to as “Monsieur,” is anything but (again, no pun intended and yet, you will need to read the book to understand exactly what I mean—the word “arse” is not only repeated numerous times in the text, but is a focus of delight and fascination by the perverse and lustful character of Monsieur).

This is no light romance of youthful fancy and sentimental imaginings. Readers of innocent and inexperienced youth, the blushing, shy, and embarrassed prudes of moral superiority and those who detest or fear sexual deviancy should not read this book. The context of Monsieur and Ellie’s affair is sordid, crude, and highly brazen. Like the book. Like the narrative.

But, it’s no simple piece of pornographic literature or smut either, though you might think so when first coming across such loud and filthy words in your reading like “cunt,” or “cock.” And trust me when I say, there’s a purpose to this language in the book. It’s at the centre of its context—as well as the style and source of its characters’ torturous affair.

The language of the book (and its couple) is brazen and unashamed, while the sex acts are primal, deviant, and cruel. But, it’s the source and expression of their arousal. It’s what connects their commonality, it’s the fuel to their egotism, and their secret vice.

But the perversity and cruelty of their sexual style is minimal in comparison to the emotional cruelty Ellie is compelled to face. I say “compelled,” because for her, her desire for Monsieur is indeed a compulsion. A choice in which she readily hungers for and chases regardless of indignity or abuse.

And while you could say Ellie’s sensuality or sexuality in some sense eventually blossoms, it does not, however experienced, ever allows itself to emancipate. It’s her desire to be dominated and enslaved that drives her to harsh, self-deprecating, sexual acts as commandeered by her beloved Monsieur.

And when I say “beloved,” I mean that as well, for he becomes that, too: a paternal tyrant, a sexual connoisseur, a physical and haunting catalyst and form for her viscous commitment and adoration.

And even though the language can be brutal, the narrative, too, becomes such a visceral thing in both the characters’ display and extreme enjoyment and pleasure in it—with also direct quotes and references from erotic literature—that it becomes, too, a hybrid of crass audacity and almost indulgent, passionate poetry.

It is a fierce novel of the inner workings (and blatant, graphic detail) of a relationship centred on rough and hard, primal sex, and the taut and unrelenting imbalance and force of power.

And as the constancy and safety of the relationship begins to deteriorate, the strength of its lure and addiction becomes even more potent and destructive.

The irony here, is that while the relationship is dangerously painful and unhealthy, the crux of its most potent cruelty is in its delusional and yet undeniable bewitching form of twisted love.

It is a titillating book (in more ways than one), erotic and candid, yet despairingly emotional.

It’s a dysfunction of senses, an over-stimulated map of one woman’s journey through lust, passion, hunger, obsession, self-loathing—and complete submission and wholehearted self-offering to the man she loves.

It will make you weep as one does in the act of passionate lovemaking, heightened arousal, and potent orgasm—and at the core of painful misery that the heart hungers to endure at the mysterious power of passion.

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Zara’s Rating

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A special thanks to E.B. of the publisher, Constable & Robsinson for providing me with a copy of the book in exchange for an unpaid, honest review.

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What key ingredients are necessary for a relationship to become and stay romantic and loving?

What do you think compels someone to tolerate and yearn for an obviously abusive and destructive relationship instead of a healthy one?

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Book Review: Love and Other Perishable Items by Laura Buzo

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Book Review:

Love and Other Perishable Items by Laura Buzo

12.20.2012

By Zara D. Garcia-Alvarez / @ZaraAlexis

love and other perishable items

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Category: Young Adult (YA) Fiction

Author: Laura Buzo

Format: Hardcover, 252 pages

Publisher: Alfred Knopf Canada

ISBN: 978-0-375-87000-2

Pub Date: December 11, 2012

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Love and Other Perishable Items by Laura Buzo is a light, young adult (YA) novel that begins in a local Coles supermarket sarcastically dubbed, “The Land of Dreams.”

It is there that an unlikely friendship occurs between a naive, but intelligent, and articulate fifteen-year-old girl named Amelia—and Chris, a charismatic, popular, but secretly lonely, 22-year-old, young man who eventually becomes not only a focus of her attention, but the center of her infatuation.

The two spend time together, first as trainer and trainee, working alongside one another as part-time employees at checkout and then evolve into confidants who share witty conversations on the topic of books, movies, feminist philosophy, and eventually their personal life stories.

THe narrative is written in first-person by both characters, Amelia from her point of view and then Chris by narrative in diary form.

While Amelia’s obvious youthful naivity and well-earned focus, intelligence, depth, and maturity deem her an outcast in the social world of the Coles supermarket, it’s these very traits that attract and uphold Chris’ respect for her.

And though the infatuation seems prematurely one-sided and potentially superficial, the two characters’ playful banter and dialogue shows both a natural rhythm and chemistry deemed of a flirtatious friendship with a potentially long history filled with comfort, and ease.

The pacing of the book is easy, while the story is light enough to be enjoyable, yet serious enough to be appreciated.

The characters are likeable, while at times and for me, sometimes difficult to believe that Amelia is merely (and realistically) a fifteen-year-old girl based on her acquired literary taste.

It is a story of youth and its inherent self-consciousness, its uncertainty, yet its reckless bravado and ambition in trying to attain great sexual experience and essentially acceptance into the adult world.

It is also a story about the sensitivity and awareness held by the youth that is often overlooked or misinterpreted.

And of course, it is a story about first love, forbidden love—or rather, inappropriate love and therefore, unrecommended courtship and the often blurred and emotional boundaries between.

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Zara’s Rating

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A special thanks to Random House of Canada for providing me with a copy of the book in exchange for an unpaid, honest review.

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My husband and I are seven years apart in age.

How large of an age gap do you think is inappropriate between couples and why?

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Book Review: The End of Your Life Book Club by Will Schwalbe

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Book Review:

The End of Your Life Book Club by Will Schwalbe

12.06.2012

By Zara D. Garcia-Alvarez / @ZaraAlexis

the end of your life book club

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Category: Non-Fiction, Memoir

Author: Will Schwalbe

Format: Hardcover, 342 pages

Publisher: Knopf Canada

ISBN: 978-0-307-39966-3

Pub Date: October 2, 2012

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The End of Your Life Book Club by Will Schwalbe is a memoir about the author and his mother, Mary Anne Schwalbe, who carry on conversations prompted by their passion for books, those they read, and agree to read together just around the time Mary Anne suffers from a rare type of hepatitis and is then later diagnosed with an advanced form of pancreatic cancer.

And while the title of the book is stark and its subject matter expected to be melancholy, Will Schwalbe’s voice is anything but that. It is instead intelligent, articulate, thoughtful, keenly observant, and witty.

I should know since I was the primary caregiver to my grandfather while he fought his own battle against pancreatic cancer in 1999.

So, while one might expect a wallowing narrative or in the other terrible extreme, an overpowering devotion to self-help or holistic, new age, positive thinking — the book is appreciatively neither.

It has instead, a quiet, but determined resilience much like Mary Anne Schwalbe herself who you learn about through the confidence Will shares with his readers about the conversational topics they have about books.

Books become a lifeline through Mary Anne Schwalbe’s terminal illness, a collective repertoire of her attitudes and beliefs. They also become a lifeline in which Will Schwalbe is able to know his mother more and give testament to her leadership, passions, and ideals. Books in the process also become a comfort and solace, a way of bringing delight or instruction, and a means to communicate what isn’t always easily spoken, but absolutely required.

So, this memoir works two-fold. It’s an observant and graceful testament to Will Schwalbe’s relationship to his mother, honouring both who she was and what she believed in; and a testament to the significance of literacy and the power of books, and what they can mean to our own stories.

If you’re an avid reader this book will reconfirm all the reasons why you are so, even providing an Appendix of books that Will and his mother read during their two-year journey. If you’re a light or skeptic reader, or a reader at all, this book will encourage and inspire you to read more.

The honesty and tenderness in which Will Schwalbe writes (especially about such a painful and personal topic) reflects one of the things his mother believed:

[That] the written word, on the page or read aloud, was to be accorded the utmost respect,” – p. 207

which is what readers will hopefully feel by the end of reading this book.

As Will Schwalbe gives a heartfelt thanks to his mother in his memoir, we should return the favour to him, the author, as its humbled readers.

Zara’s Rating

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If you were given an opportunity to write a memoir, what topic do you think you’d like to write about?

Has anyone close to you ever battled cancer or another terminal illness?

What do you find hardest about watching someone you love fight such a battle?

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Book Review: The Vampire Shrink by Lynda Hilburn

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Book Review:

The Vampire Shrink by Lynda Hilburn

11.29.2012

By Zara D. Garcia-Alvarez / @ZaraAlexis

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Category: Paranormal Fiction, Erotic Fiction

Author: Lynda Hilburn

Format: Trade Paperback, 458 pages

Publisher: Silver Oak Publishing

ISBN: 978-0-85738-720-2

Pub Date: April 3, 2012

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The Vampire Shrink by Lynda Hilburn is a story about a rational psychologist named Kismet Knight who, in her practice, meets and counsels a troubled teenager who renames herself, Midnight, in response to her fascination with vampires. While Kismet is a strong skeptic of the supernatural and quickly makes attempts at addressing Midnight’s potential diagnosis based on textbook symptoms, she becomes not only intrigued with the richness of Midnight’s vampire “fantasy,” but also becomes the center of its very real, warring feud.

Kismet’s assumptions are slowly dismantled in meeting the immensely powerful and passionate, 800-year-old vampire, Devereaux, who not only claims to be real, but also happens to be the leader of his vampire coven that covers its anonymity through a popular, goth nightclub called The Crypt in the town of Denver.

The plot intensifies as the book progresses and the vampire world is revealed. It’s a sharp page-turner that will compel its readers to sit for hours engrossed in its plot, romance, and dark magic.

The narrative is surprisingly mature for what I had expected to be a paranormal, YA novel, but appreciatively so. Aside from overtly clichéd, fantasy names like Kismet, Midnight, and Devereaux, the voice of the main character, Kismet,  is consistently mature for a shy, self-conscious introvert-turned-passionate and expressive, sexual prowess.

The book delves deep into dark magic, supernatural power, and demystifies the mythological stereotypes and folklore usually associated with vampires to reveal a dark, powerful, and sensuous breed—who, though may seem to have similarities with its human counterpart, is emphasized to be a very real, rare, and superior form of species.

And it’s as graphic as it is as sultry where love scenes are detailed, graphic forms of lust, passion, and erotica not intended for readers under the age of 18.

It’s a culmination of murder, evil, vampire fascination and sub-culture, romance and rivalry, dark magic and the inexplicable forces of the supernatural, and the culpable, emotional, and physical explosion that is inevitable when two opposing forces—human and vampire—are bound.

If you’re a vampire enthusiast, you’ll appreciate this sinister and sexy, fast-paced, but intense novel of the ever endearing and frightful nightwalker.

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The next book in this series is Blood Therapy and is expected to release February 5, 2013 by Silver Oak Publishing.

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What do you find most fascinating about vampires and its sub-culture in fiction?

What do you think has been over-done?

What do you think Bram Stoker would say to the evolution of his original character, Dracula?

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